More horror stories

I do wish people would stop telling me about various unemployment and redundancy horror stories. It seems like everyday I get told about Tom, Dick or Harry who were made redundant 12 months ago and who are STILL looking for work. At first it was worrying but now its just downright annoying. Can't these people see that I have to believe that something will come up soon for Andy? Do they think I want to be made even more worried then I already am? I really NEED to think that something will come up soon even if the reality turns out to be different. I *do* trust that God will send him/us down the right path in whatever time it happens to take....but I'm also human and need small things to keep me going.